You cannot be whatever you want to be. At some point in your life you have been told that you can be whatever you want to be or do whatever you want to do if you put your mind to it. It simply is not true.
It may sound harsh but . . . → Read More: What are you going to do with your life?
We are designed to be busy even when we aren’t busy. Like free-flowing water fills a hole, we are creatures that find a way to fill our time. Sometimes we fill our time with doing something productive. Sometimes we fill our time with something unproductive. I’ve said before that even recreational time can be . . . → Read More: You probably aren’t busy enough
We all have roles in our lives. Our roles are as parents, children, spouses, bosses, employees, etc. These roles come with responsibility, accountability, and ownership.
There are times when these roles can require help to do them.
As a parent you may need daycare or a babysitter. As child you may need . . . → Read More: Delegating your responsibility
For the most part people get away with doing poor work or providing poor service. You might think that their poor work or service is because no one complains, but that isn’t entirely true. I assure you that people complain about their work or service. The complaints are misdirected to family and friends rather . . . → Read More: Complaining
When seeing someone or do something, it’s easy to be a critic. After the fact all the information appears to be known. You may ask yourself, “How could they have made a dumb decision?”
The facts may seem crystal clear in hindsight, but rarely do you have all the information. There . . . → Read More: Easy to criticize